When a Gemini man falls in love, it is hard to say how long it will last. He needs change and responds to the excitement and the surprising nature of their loved one. While he feels emotion, he thinks that it goes deep and will rarely ask himself if it is just something that will pass tomorrow. Enjoying the moment, he could truly get on their partner’s nerves if they constantly try to make plans for their future together. This doesn’t mean Gemini partner doesn’t care, but he needs spontaneity in his life because everything else makes him feel tied down. He is gentle, exciting, changeable, detached and can certainly make a woman laugh. He is all those things in one person and all in one day, every day.
This is a man who gives little meaning to the act of sex. He has a youthful glow around him and will usually be potent for many years, but he doesn’t care about sex as much as he cares about the excitement that goes with it. He wants someone to challenge him but not dig into his insecurities. He needs someone smart enough who says the right things at the right time. He likes sex outdoors and can be quite a pervert, with no ill intention hidden. If he is in a long term relationship, he will expect change in their sexual activities all the time, almost as if he is frightened of the routine and what it represents. Gemini needs to be on the move, always changing partners, positions or locations.
You couldn’t exactly say that a Gemini man is dependable or reliable. He has no intention of letting their partner down, but he is not aware of the speed of changes in his feel of reality. When he is in love for real, he will have seasons in his feelings no matter the love. From spring and blossoming desire, to winter and unbearable distance, he is a difficult man to be with if you expect consistency. The only way he can remain in a functional relationship is if he finds a partner who is self-sufficient and fully independent. If he finds a partner who catches a glimpse of his winter and leaves him to boil waiting – someone to love him in the exact same way as he loves, but with a little more patience.
This is a difficult question to answer, and the answer would most frequently be a simple “no”. You cannot trust your Gemini partner. This is not because he is a pathological liar, but because there is no way to predict what tomorrow will bring to his mind or his heart. There are many things he can say in the heat of the moment, and these are all complex mathematical equations that you have to decipher if you want to know if he meant to say what he said and understand what he actually wanted to say. However, if he shares his life with a partner with real emotional depth, able to feel his inner personality that doesn’t change overnight, he is a lucky man who will never betray his partners trust.
There is no way of knowing where he will want to take you out. He is not one of those traditional men who has the need to make the first step, and will gladly accept someone’s invitation to any place that sounds interesting. If he develops feelings, he will surprise his partner with different places, presents and all sorts of creative spices to their dating life. It is impossible to get bored with Gemini, unless they talk too much and this is also something that can be changed with one conversation. The best way to describe the dating life of Gemini is – anywhere and anyhow, for as long as it is spontaneous and carefree.
Usually Gemini is something like a superficial guinea pig to other people. The truth is his nature is not at all light and superficial, but very complex and hard to reach. If you are superficial yourself, you will never get beyond Gemini’s surface that everyone is allowed to see. This is a man distant from his own emotions and needs to get to the burning core of his heart, but doesn’t know how to do that. If he’s been hurt by his family, there is a great chance he will never go deep enough to understand himself and then it is even more difficult for others to actually see him. If someone recognizes the core of a Gemini man they will find that there is a root to all that childish charm and an incredible inner beauty.
He is positive, adventurous and surprising, always on the move and ready to meet any life challenge. When he is truly in love, he shows his childlike heart, pure and untouched. However, there is a lot not to like when he gets distant and simply doesn’t care anymore. He can be unreliable, acting like a spoiled child and scared of his emotions.
Take him somewhere he hasn’t been, buy him a book with practical instructions, give him anything that has letters on it or can be used to write, chat or take pictures. He likes different electric gadgets, strange, small things that can be used for his phone or by his finger. He wants freedom to use his present once and then throw it away. Whatever you decide to give to a Gemini man, top it all with a smile. That might be the only thing you both need.