When a Libra woman falls in love, she starts questioning her decision to be in love, as if it was possible to control. The rule of Venus comes to focus here, for she will do anything in her power to fall out of love if a person she has feelings for is socially unacceptable for her standards. In general, this is a sign that lacks initiative, and due to the position of her Sun, this woman can see men in her life as weak and passive. This will make her show initiative when in love, even when it is not the time, nor the place to do so. It is almost as if she wants to show how liberal she actually is, but she suffers the exaltation of Saturn and is, in fact, quite turned to traditional values and appropriate behavior.
This is a strange subject for a Libra woman. She will go into extremes, on one hand showing her sexuality as if it was a given for everyone to see, and on the other being quite insecure in actual sexual encounters. Her problem with self-esteem will become an unbearable issue with a partner that disrespects her in any way, and she might feel obligated to remain in this type of a relationship because of unconscious feelings of guilt. When she is with the right partner, she will want to experiment, try out everything that pops into her mind and communicate freely about her desires and preferences.
In a relationship with a Libra woman, you can expect anything, for as long as it is well “packed”. She will be caring and deep, but also be prepared to show her selfish, manipulative side, wrapped in candy paper. It can be hard to understand her position, because she will rarely show her uncontrolled emotions and passions, so the right partner needs to know her deeply and intimately, including the things she doesn’t want to show. In general, when she decides to be with someone, she will be committed and loyal. Even though she can often be too worried about other people’s opinions, she will stick to her choices even if they are not good for her.
In general, Libra woman is faithful, but she doesn’t always say what she means. Her emotions are often hidden because she feels they are unproductive or shameful, and she won’t have a real outburst of emotions even when she would gladly explode. She cares more about the way she acts than about the way she actually feels, and this can leave her in a pretty bad place for a long time. If you understand her deeply enough you will be able to trust her, but only if you feel her emotions.
This is a woman that will date for pleasure only for as long as she is not ready for marriage. As soon as she becomes ready, she will only look for serious relationships and won’t take much of uncertainty and unclear emotions from her partner. Her need to be with someone for better or for worse is extremely strong, and dating her will never be casual, even if she says it is. She can be quite needy, seem incapable of doing anything alone, and her dates can’t seem to avoid the closeness and the road to marriage unless she is not interested to stay with her partner at all. The interesting thing about a Libra woman is that there is no middle ground with her. If she wants to date you, she will probably want to marry you in the long run.
This is a woman that must have unresolved issues with her father and she is not easy to understand. She can be wonderful, caring, give you her undivided attention and be just and responsible more than any other sign. But her low self-esteem makes her dependent on opinions of others, or too quick to show she doesn’t care about anyone’s opinion. She doesn’t understand why other people don’t act in the way she would, and this makes her question her every move. We can say that every Libra is indecisive, but the truth is, this woman cares too much about the future to let things slide, and takes on too much guilt and responsibility. This inevitably leads to a state of self-pity and taking the role of a victim.
She is just, loyal, committed and tactful. She will be prepared to give her life for the partner she chooses. However, she can be too focused on other people and forget who she is in the process. This makes her controlling, inflexible and disrespectful, losing her ability to approach other people’s characters and motives without judgment.
Even though the sign of Libra exalts Saturn, the Air element of this sign will make her more fascinated by a nice surprise than following the expected routine. It wouldn’t be good to miss her birthday or your anniversary, but it would be much worse to give her presents only on those occasions. Surprise your Libra. Buy her flowers or a well-balanced perfume. She will value a piece of jewelry, a feminine watch or anything artistic and beautiful. She needs balance in her life, and she will like her presents to be moderate, not too colorful or pap. She will always be happy to get an unexpected box of chocolate, followed by a red rose, even if she feels guilty about her weight and the chocolate she will eat.